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DON’T COMPARE THE WRONG GUY

As we approach the end of the year, it’s time for many of us to compare, examine and rate our level of performance throughout the year.

The challenge I have with this exercise is not the comparison really, but, comparing the wrong guy! Who’s the wrong guy?

Soon enough many routes would become more busier than they have been since the year as many would be touching down hometowns. It will be a season of flaunting; monies, wears, houses, cars, achievements will be flaunted by many so as to be marked as successful folks.

Never compare yourself to any of these guys. You can’t achieve everything I’ve achieved and I can’t achieve everything you’ve achieved this year too.

I might be financially richer than you but you might be intellectually richer than me too and same rounds other aspects of life. Comparing your year with another person’s would mean comparing with the wrong guy.

The right guy to compare is yourself! Compare this ending to the beginning, middle. You will see how successful you are.

Comparing with another would make you feel insecure and sometimes inferior. Check your timeline, you’re doing well. Think of bad decisions you overcame, wrong actions you refused to take, temptations you overcame, your new clothes, shoes, your faith in Christ Jesus, your academics and all, you’re doing very great.

Don’t you ever compare the wrong guy! It will help your sanity!

Shalom 🙏 #KingOnyedikachi
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